30 days of writing challenge — day 28: write about loving someone
idk bro it’s fucking complicated in both ways (good and bad.) here, let me tell you something. there’s love that keeps you going, doing better, more positive and every other good things in life that grows butterflies in your stomach. but there’s also love that does the opposite way of those points i’ve mentioned before. and it’s not good. but, love is blind, it keeps you blind in so many ways to the point where you thought that you are doing it for love, but instead, you’re letting yourself going deeper into a big black dark hole that troubles you from getting out of that place. but if it’s on the right path, it could possibly lead you into somewhere unexpectedly remarkable and amazing.
there’s no perfect relationship in this whole wide world. is it possible to call 2 person being together for 10 years and still stick together and call it perfect? perhaps yes, but there’s a mountain of struggles that leads you to the top.
i’m pretty sure that each one of you have had fallen in love before. and you must have understand the struggles along the way but it’s worth it. i’m just saying that loving someone is not as bright and bubble and sunshine and rainbows and sprinkles all the time. sometimes it’s thunders and gloomy clouds and dark skies and nightmares too.
but before you star loving someone else, you have to love yourself first. because if you don’t, then how are you supposed to share your love towards other person than yourself? it’s not going to work that way.
so, love yourself first. and then your love will come for you.